Fighting Fire With Fire
Have you heard the expression “Fight fire with fire” ? That’s when you come back at something or someone with the same thing that they came at you with. Someone comes at you angry; you give them anger back. When someone comes at you arrogantly you give them arrogance back. You get the idea. It’s a vicious cycle really; because the discussion or argument or situation never becomes about a resolution. It simply becomes about sustaining the level of animosity or maintaining an equilibrium of anger; none of which are healthy or Christ like. We can look at these situations like mini storms in our lives; things that come at us in a moments notice. Someone cuts us off in an aggressive way, or blindsides us with a less than kind criticism. In both cases we’re taken off guard and a feeling deep within us erupts. Suddenly we find ourselves behaving aggressively back to the other driver or saying unkind words to the person who we feel has verbally violated us. If we look at these time...